It took me close to 5 years to figure this out. I did a lot of [spiritual bypassing], telling myself that as I heal myself I heal them. That is absolutely NOT true and not the case, especially when you attempt to heal with the agenda of a superficial/ego goal such as bagging the person you’re obsessed with it. But what is the worst part? You could never ACTUALLY heal this way. The obsession IS the ill programming which is one of the various things which needs to be healed. So, you’re THAT much more short of your superficial goal anyway (irony). You have to heal yourself, and then there might be a 10% chance that this vibrationally influences a reunion with a healed version of them. 90% though, you will attract a different person who is healed too or possibly never even had such "scars"—AKA their a vibrational match to your new healed self.
Most humans are still learning through TRAUMA (in fairness it IS THE POINT of this frequency-dimension). Including plenty of light workers and starseeds.. (Imagine the regular humans). Most relationships are teaching us in some cases, nothing more than what we don’t want to be, and we failed to confirm that we don’t want to be it. That’s mostly all relationships, which we have to approach with as much clarity as possible coupled with patience (cuz you might have to do that relationship 10 times — lets you know not much clarity) AND DISCERNMENT. In fact, this video is more important than “idealistic” relationships (idealistic, almost to the point of being fake). For the full video…
Here's an arguably more coherent description of my own journey that I've called Dark Night Of The Soul. Maybe it helps you understand, and MAYBE.. you'll intake some knowledge of what some of you may yourselves be stepping into – YES with it's OWN details individual to you. Why? Because now is a very interesting time and now may be the time and even only time for some of you (I SO apologize for occasionally sounding dogmatic, BUT for myself I've recognized IT'S TIME and I'm simply acting accordingly with ACTUALLY just myself). Hope this finds all well and in peace. You CAN have peace 🕊️ –
BONUS: Why Trump Can't Do It On His Own And You ALL Have To (REAL RASMUSSEN STATISTICS). Now here's my 'Meta' verbal take on it: This is look at the can't-be-undone "Made Bed" and a new healthy (if you want) [NEW] START from THAT respected and only vantage point a lotted/available. I would have to tell you if you feel you hate to argue with that ...
Why Has President Trump Got A 10 Point Boost In The Polls Recently? The Answer Is Bigger Than You Think! Humanity MUST Decide What It Wants To Be Moving Forward. Ascending Souls PAY META-ATTENTION! (Please stop asking what you should do and release your self-judgements – CREATE THE REALITY THAT YOU WANT MOVING FORWARD and as long as you're as sincere as you POSSIBLY can be no path with it's own set of details is wrong. Tip: The more you're able to really love yourself the less self-judgement you'll find you need to carry. And your "5D" will start to creep in. THAT'S ALL. When you get through "all this" (there's less need to judge it than you think) you'll be rewarded your 5D – BUT I HAVE TO TELL YA I hope most of ya'll are reaching higher. Maybe some of you are, because you can have access to higher. But I also understand how many are simply extremely tethered to this experience through energetic heaviness (often known as "bad" karma – no such thing as bad) they haven't figured out how ...