It took me close to 5 years to figure this out. I did a lot of [spiritual bypassing], telling myself that as I heal myself I heal them. That is absolutely NOT true and not the case, especially when you attempt to heal with the agenda of a superficial/ego goal such as bagging the person you’re obsessed with it. But what is the worst part? You could never ACTUALLY heal this way. The obsession IS the ill programming which is one of the various things which needs to be healed. So, you’re THAT much more short of your superficial goal anyway (irony). You have to heal yourself, and then there might be a 10% chance that this vibrationally influences a reunion with a healed version of them. 90% though, you will attract a different person who is healed too or possibly never even had such "scars"—AKA their a vibrational match to your new healed self.
Most humans are still learning through TRAUMA (in fairness it IS THE POINT of this frequency-dimension). Including plenty of light workers and starseeds.. (Imagine the regular humans). Most relationships are teaching us in some cases, nothing more than what we don’t want to be, and we failed to confirm that we don’t want to be it. That’s mostly all relationships, which we have to approach with as much clarity as possible coupled with patience (cuz you might have to do that relationship 10 times — lets you know not much clarity) AND DISCERNMENT. In fact, this video is more important than “idealistic” relationships (idealistic, almost to the point of being fake). For the full video…
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